Why did God use the rib of Adam to create Eve?

Everything God does is for a reason. Why didn’t God use the blood, flesh or any other part of Adam to make Eve? God took Adam’s rib, why? Eve was made of a rib out of the side of Adam, not made out of his head to rule over him, nor out of his feet to be trampled upon by him, but out of his side to stand by him, under his arm to be protected and near his heart to be loved.

Adam was created but Eve was made. Adam came from the dust but Eve came from the rib. The rib does not easily decay in the dust but the dust can be blown away. So the rib (Eve) is in the dust (Adam) to help him stand the test of time. If God goes to the dust again to make Eve it will make her equal to Adam in headship.

Genesis 2:21, “And the Lord caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; And He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place”.

In the medical world before an operation is carried out the doctor will inject the patient with a sedative to put the patient to sleep. That was exactly what God did. God is a Supreme Doctor, He never broke medical protocols. He took Adam to the theatre and injected him with a spiritual sedative. Adam slept, God performed a spiritual surgery on him, removed the rib and stitched his flesh. During the spiritual operation on Adam even when he was asleep he knew what was happening by revelation. That was why when he woke up he said, “This is now bone of my bones ………” (Genesis 2:23). He knew a bone was taken out of him.

I don’t buy the idea of, “what a man can do a woman can do better”. It is not scriptural. The woman came to life by the rib, meaning, she is made to strengthen the man when he is failing, lift him up when he is waxing cold and help him when he tries to stumble. In other words, I believe it should be, “what a man cannot do a woman can do”.

God had to take the rib from Adam in an exchange for something better. His rib was a sacrifice to have a partner. No love without sacrifice. God was teaching Adam that a rib can be transformed into his replica. The man gave birth to the woman before the woman had the ability to procreate.

The rib was the bride price of the marriage. God had to take it from him as a bond or covenant of the marriage. This is the reason marriage is sacred. If you don’t understand the mystery behind it you won’t value it. If you and your spouse is about calling it quits is high time you gave it a second thought.

In the marriage between Adam and Eve, Eden was the church. God, Christ and Holy Spirit were the witnesses while the angels were the guests. I pray your marriage will never lose its rib.

Marriage is for a lifetime but wedding is for a day. Never forget that.

93 responses to “Why did God use the rib of Adam to create Eve?”

  1. Child Of God avatar

    Genesis 1 :27 please read this it tells you in God’s Word.

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  2. ... avatar

    I love the way you explained this, it almost brought tears to my eyes. One of the things I love most about the story of creation is that I believe we are the only thing in creation that God used his hands to make and his breath to give life to. We have such an awesome God.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      I’m glad it inspired you.
      It’s awesome having your thoughts.
      Remain lifted.

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  3. hazzabazzablog avatar

    Thanks for this post, it was very thought provoking and interesting to hear your opinion on the topic.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      You’re sincerely welcome.

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  4. truefaith101 avatar

    Reblogged this on My daily CHRISTIAN walk and commented:
    Amazing blog on marriage!!!

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Thanks for the reblog.

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  5. truefaith101 avatar

    That was fantastic. I loved reading this and it absolutely lines up to scripture too!! Wonderful post

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Thanks for that

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  6. Author Ryan Callahan avatar

    Amen! May the Lord strengthen all of our marriages in His Holy Love!

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Amen!! God bless you.

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  7. John avatar
    John

    This would be my favorite post i’ve seen yet, very inspiring

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Glory to God. Your contribution is appreciated.

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  8. Betty Jo/ The Journey avatar
    Betty Jo/ The Journey

    God Bless You for sharing this. I personally when I was of this world I had that mine set about “what a man can do a woman can do better”. You are right it is ((not)) Scripture. I didn’t know any better. Now that I know the ((Truth)) A Women we are to be a ((Help)) and not a destroyer. I like when you shared: “what a man cannot do a woman can do”. This is a blessing. I love this scripture: Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths.” Amen!! Amen!! 🙂

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      You’re absolutely right. Your words are on point. Thanks for your time.

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  9. Ron avatar

    She was the helpmeet of God to witness His creation. Gen.1 vs.1

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  10. Peter Adewumi avatar
    Peter Adewumi

    What a great post! Marriage is for a lifetime but wedding is for a day. Moreover, “what a man cannot do in marriage, a woman can do”. Thanks for the revelation.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      You’re welcome. I appreciate your comments.

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      1. Peter Adewumi avatar
        Peter Adewumi

        That’s just it!

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  11. Emperor Publishing LLC avatar

    Reblogged this on Stuff Inside My Head and commented:
    Really good post of the importance of both the man and the women and their relationship to one another.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Thanks for stopping by and the reblog. Stay lifted.

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  12. Nancy Ruegg avatar

    I agree with you 100%: “What a man cannot do a woman can do”. My guess is that’s why God made us male and female. We complete one another. Great message, Pastor Nmezi! Sincerely, Nancy Ruegg (visiting here from Heidi Viars, Wings of Dawn)

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      I appreciate your time and reply. You’re blessed.

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  13. The Delaware Blogger avatar
    The Delaware Blogger

    Thank you, food for thought!

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      You’re welcome

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      1. haveyouevernoticedblog avatar

        I just nominated you for The Awesome Blogger Impact Award! https://wordpress.com/post/haveyouevernoticedblog.wordpress.com/262

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  14. BelovedNxumalo avatar
    BelovedNxumalo

    Reblogged this on Thandeka Nxumalo and commented:
    A great read about Marriage.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      I thank you for reblogging this post. Stay connected.

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  15. BelovedNxumalo avatar
    BelovedNxumalo

    Wow, great post, again 🙂 . I’m so going to share this. Eye opening. I’m learning a lot as a single woman. God bless you sir and thank you.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      You’re welcome my dear. You’re blessed. Best of luck.

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  16. Lundun Bridges avatar

    I couldn’t stop reading… Amazing read!

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      All glory to God. I appreciate.

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  17. bottomlesscoffee007 avatar

    People always clamor about love, love this love that. Love is the hardest, if love was easy, marriage would not take work. Love is a lifetime achievement through dedication and perseverance. God does the impossible, God loves all truly. We speak of love, but rarely ever practice love.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      You’re right on that. God will certainly give us the courage to love. Bless you.

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  18. shespeaksvolume avatar

    Absolutely beautiful, this was truth, fulfilling, and food to my soul this morning. I’m definitely going to share this. Thank you and may you continue to be blessed.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      It’s glorious this message lifted your spirit. Stay connected. God bless you.

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      1. shespeaksvolume avatar

        Thank you

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        1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

          You’re welcome my dear.

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  19. Of stones And flowers avatar

    This piece about Eve Coming from the Rib of Adam was very thought provoking
    I wish my ex man actually valued what he had for a wife. He was never satisfied with what he had and blamed others,
    Marriage and it’s bond does not account for or allow for men to violate his wife, to hit or verbally and emotionally assault his wife. It should not be tolerated in the church and the church should support a woman that needs to leave.
    Just as god took that rib From Adam he gave eve breathe of life, if that breath of life has been broken and injured than Adam should have paid the consequence not Eve.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Your points are quite good. You have a good mind by what you said.

      “……. the church should support a woman that needs to leave”. I think caution, reconciliation, widom and prayers should be applied in this matter.

      Thanks once again for writing your thoughts on this post. God bless you.

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  20. primeoptimum avatar

    God is indeed a great Doctor

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Yes He is ! Thanks for reading.

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  21. Nitin avatar

    Indeed a wonderful post. I am blessed. God has given you amazing revelation. Please continue to share all revelations God is going to send. Be blessed.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      I’m glad you commented. It’s nice hearing from you. Remain blessed my friend.

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      1. Nitin avatar

        Welcome pastor. Please check my blog post if possible.

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      2. Nitin avatar

        Thanks for liking my post. God bless you.

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  22. Crystal Castillo avatar

    Wow! “What a man cannot do, a woman can do!” That’s a powerful statement! Thank you for writing this blog and sharing God’s truth with us. Marriage is about complementing one another and sacrificing for each other with the purpose of bettering one another always.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Your words are encouraging. It’s wonderful having your thoughts on this matter. Remain victorious.

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  23. Beverley avatar

    Sound words. God made the man and woman equal to compliment each other not to compete with each other.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      I thank you for your time and reply. Happy days ahead.

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  24. rue202 avatar

    Wow! Really interesting. Never thought of it like that, but very true!

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      You’re welcome. Remain blessed.

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      1. rue202 avatar

        You too!

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  25. SLIMJIM avatar

    “Marriage is for a lifetime but wedding is for a day. Never forget that.” Amen!

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Thanks for stopping by.

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  26. Pastor$Evangelist Robert M . Lavu avatar

    Now I know why God had to use the rib!Thanks for your post.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      You’re blessed. Your reply is a faith booster.

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  27. wizzymedpower avatar

    Excellently written.. Chilavert

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Thanks so much

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      1. wizzymedpower avatar

        You’re welcome

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  28. Crissy avatar
    Crissy

    The amazing beauty of God demonstrated in His creation of marriage! Thank you!

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    1. Rotimi Elijah avatar

      Yes indeed.

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    2. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      It’s a pleasure. I appreciate your comment.

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  29. labake's beauty blog avatar

    I have never looked at the story this way.. I love the breakdown and this shows the strength of a woman and how the man his also a protector. Thanks for this

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      I see!! The Scripture is interesting. It gives us more understanding in our daily lives.
      I’m glad you commented.

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      1. rue202 avatar

        Yes, it does give us more understanding.

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    2. rue202 avatar

      Agreed.

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  30. jmshistorycorner avatar

    Actually, when you look at the Hebrew, you find that Adam was originally a hermaphrodite, and that God removed the female organs to create Eve:

    Biblical Genders


    Otherwise, very interesting insights.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      You have a point there. Your highlights are meaningful.

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      1. jmshistorycorner avatar

        Thanks.

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    2. Child Of God avatar

      Ur so sick!!

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  31. inhiscare753 avatar

    Wonderfully written, the Word of God Alive! Thank you for sharing the Truth.
    To God be the Glory! Teach!

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Your encouragement has lifted my spirit. Remain blessed.

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      1. inhiscare753 avatar

        Amen

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  32. RG2Cents avatar

    Beautiful allegory.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      I appreciate your words, my friend.

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  33. Chris avatar

    But what if there is no god, which is what I believe. Then all that is just part of the fairy tales that make up the Bible.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      There is God and if you say there is none, then it is your opinion. Thanks for your time.

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    2. HER BUTLER avatar

      If you read the bible, you know there are chosen people who went into captivity and the strangers who were adopted in because they believed in Him also. Then there are the strangers whos eyes have been blinded not to see him until the day of the Messiah’s return. On that day, you will see what you don’t see now and you will have 1000 years while he reigns on this earth to beg for his forgiveness and be drafted in. There is only a remnant of people that are chosen. Two thirds of his people are doomed to die also in that day. So, I hope thos comment helps you in some way. Shalom!

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      1. Child Of God avatar

        Omg u r so wrong!

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  34. Efua avatar

    I like this!

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Thanks for liking !!

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  35. andthentheendshallcome JERRY PARKS avatar

    Reblogged this on And Then Messiah Shall Come and commented:
    This is great wisdom. And in the same way, our Lord, and our betrothed Future Husband, gave not only of His side, but of His hands and His feet. This that we would walk with, and work beside Him and worship at His feet.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Wisdom comes above. May His wisdom not elude us.
      Your additions are meaningful.
      Thanks for reblogging.

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  36. andthentheendshallcome JERRY PARKS avatar

    Pastor, this is great wisdom. And in the same way, our Lord, and our betrothed Future Husband, gave not only of His side, but of His hands and His feet. This that we would walk with, and work beside Him and worship at His feet.

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  37. HER BUTLER avatar

    Beautiful post. Pure truth. The feminist mind set is pure evil. If you gather 100 women to build a boat and 100 men to build a boat, I guarantee only one boat would be standing in the waters. The women are most likely to help the men build their boat than build their own. Its Like that because of how we were created by the Father. All praises to our creator.

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    1. Pastor Chilavert Nmezi avatar

      Thanks for reading and commenting. It’s a pleasure having you on this platform. God bless you.

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    2. Child Of God avatar

      Why put women down? I m no feminist but I am not mean either.

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